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Please Allow Us To Celebrate Valentine!

Just a couple more days come Valentine Day. It is a day where people and the loved ones come together and get cozy, celebrating their love for one another. I have seen a lot of advertisement on the paper, hotels giving special rates, restaurants giving Valentine dinner at special price, jewellery shops offering best gifts for Valentine celebrants and I like the atmosphere - the feeling of love in the air.

However, I felt it is quite a discrimination that in this country amidst the advert, actually discourage people to celebrate that auspicious day. Why? This was even mentioned in some sermons and talks. Why? Stop being so narrow minded.

Why discriminate the day of love? We are in a war here... with ourselves actually. It doesn't matter what race or religion for we have been taught to love one another. What is wrong with sharing love and kindness that day?

 

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written by open minded , February 09, 2010
sharing love and kindness that day? and produce more babies out of marriage? and more babies in the dumpster? hehe...
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love
written by ghij , February 09, 2010
START LOVING YOURSELF FIRST!
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written by Pendekar , February 09, 2010
There's nothing wrong with wanting to celebrate valentines day, but you have to realized that Brunei is a muslim country, we do not practise such celebrations.

I would advise you to celebrate it in a discreet way or better yet fly off to the neighbouring country.

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VALENTINE'S DAY.....
written by mia , February 09, 2010
May be you don't get these..... VALENTINE'S DAY IS FOR NON-MUSLIM ONLY BUT NOT FOR MUSLIM. So the question here is are you a non-muslim or muslim. You should not mention the word 'DISCRIMINATION' Please think before you write...
if you are not muslim then go ahead just celebrate that special day. It's your choice then...
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valentine?
written by Legacy , February 09, 2010
why dont u just celebrate ur own anniversary instead of waiting for valentine day..celebrating with the love one can be anytime especially ur own special day..
as everyone knows that valentine day is not for muslim..
No Discrimination-
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haram tetap haram
written by .................... , February 09, 2010
are you a muslim?? if you are its haram for muslim to celebrate this christian day?? you're embarassing yourself here.

if you are non muslim pls bear in mind, we dont stop any non muslim to celebrate their days all you can do is just mind your own business.
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Be My Valentine
written by MRKYMARK , February 09, 2010
We appreciate love.But we look at the bigger picture,Bigger picture says its a Muslim country.Unless you're legally married,its still sinful even to go for a date,But Brunei is still considered a Modern Muslim world compared to other countries,but still we don't encourage things like this for obvious reason.Ask an ordinary senior Muslim in Brunei..Then you'll know.
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IN ISLAM LOVING, CARING IS FOR EVERYDAY
written by RUS LEE , February 09, 2010
First there is no 'Discrimination' to mention. Brunei is very tolerant to other religious faith to do their practice.

If you are a muslim, let me tell you that loving and caring should be celebrated everyday!
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written by Cinta pada yang satu iaitu ALLAH , February 09, 2010
I fully DISAGREE with what you are saying. First of all, you are talking aboyt discrimination..Stand infront of a mirror and ask yourself "AM I A MUSLIM??" If you are it is a big DISGRACE for you. MasyaAllah..As a Muslim country I am proud to stand up to banned this V' day thingy. As you all know Valentine's Day as it is the short form of SAINT Valentine's day. It is named after one or more early Christian martyrs named Valentine and was established by Pope Gelasius I in 496 AD. Nama pope! PRIEST a.k.a PADERI kali tu ah!!! What do expect? Memuja manusia yang agamanya terpesong! SHAME ON YOU!

SUBAHANALLAH...I somehow agree what some earlier comments..

1. Cintailah Allah kerana tanpaNya siapalah kita untuk mencintai sesama manusia.
2. Ingatlah agama mu(ISLAM) kerana ia adalah agama yang akan membantu mu menjauhi bala bencana dunia apa lagi Neraka jahanam.
3. Cintailah dirimu dahulu sebelum menyintai diri orang lain.

As what Rus Lee have said, "loving and caring should be celebrated everyday" but in a good way..Not celebrating V' day... *sigh* Biarlah berpada-pada kalau becinta..Kalau udah kawin nda dilarang tapi masih diHARAMKAN menyambut V'day..Mun ganya masih becinta setakat boyfriend girlfriend, please lah...YOU ARE EMBARASSING YOURSELF here!!! and probably if you don't remember BRUNEI IS M.I.B country...bang your head on the wall then maybe you remember...LOL...

And if you are a non-Muslim, go ahead celebrate anywhere whatever wherever anything you want to do..There is no discrimination..BRUNEI is a MUSLIM country...bare that in mind...

Sorry kalau ada terkasar bahasa. Manusia tiada yang sempurna.. smilies/smiley.gif smilies/smiley.gif As'Salam....
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written by Muslim , February 09, 2010
No singing, no dancing, no social gathering. No Valentine Day Celebration. MIB will crack down, and make sure no celebration is allowed.
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written by Ce-V , February 09, 2010
I'm not Christian, and I'll tell you that a lot of people won't mind you celebrating, say having a nice dinner with your love one, express your love and dedication for each other. Do go ahead. The majority don't care much actually, its that small amount of ultra-conservative narrow-minded people who are messing around trying o control everyone.
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you narrowminded
written by what for , February 09, 2010
you see, religion is something deep. there is nothing wrong with taking advantage over offers like that. but don't do it because its valentine days. take your wife/husband out because of the special offer. i doubt you'll get what i mean
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written by jack154 , February 09, 2010
go ahead...celebrate SAINT valentines day....tsk tsk tsk...
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We Are Not Narrow Minded, You Are.
written by Normal kid , February 09, 2010
We won't care if you're not a muslim, but if you're one, I suggest to not care about that. You do not know the history of Valentine (to be honest, there's a hell lot of stories behind it, one includes a man named Valentine who won in a war with muslim) and I, personally, am not a sex-or-love freak. If you notice, there's too many wild teens nowadays who only cared about their lovers and life and all the money, but they had forgotten about religion. If you're a muslim and still does not care about all this crap, go outside the country and NEVER COME BACK. You're a disgrace to the Islam religion.

But on the other hand, if you're not muslim, do whatever you want eh. Just don't go too far and throw babies around dumps like some young idiots do. Please, think. We're not stupid, and so are you.

SUBAHANNALLAH. Love between a legal married couple....is a terrible sin to celebrate. SHAME ON YOU. and I am not even your mum.
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simply pathethic
written by KotaroMinami , February 10, 2010
I want to point something out..

first of all your headline on "Please Allow Us To Celebrate Valentine!"
-Who do mean by "us" actually?

"Just a couple more days come Valentine Day."
-wow...you seem to be eager for this day to come eh? I wonder whats in your mind...what is so special about it anyway?

"It is a day where people and the loved ones come together and get cozy, celebrating their love for one another"
-pathetic i must say...does it have to be this day only? what happen to any other day?

"I have seen a lot of advertisement on the paper, hotels giving special rates, restaurants giving Valentine dinner at special price, jewelery shops offering best gifts for Valentine celebrants and I like the atmosphere - the feeling of love in the air."
-well to them...its time to take business strategy and take this advantage to gain more profits on this so called "special" day. business is business...the smell of income is in the air~

"I felt it is quite a discrimination that in this country amidst the advert, actually discourage people to celebrate that auspicious day"
-define discrimination...as earlier comments given "us Muslim do not practice such celebrations".

"Why? This was even mentioned in some sermons and talks. Why? Stop being so narrow minded."
-and you're asking why? you did mention "in some sermon and talks" but do you understand what messages are they trying to tell? and uhh...are you a Muslim? and who is being narrow minded here? are you familiar with the word "Consequence"? Im not even surprised if the rate of early marriage rises after this day and a horible news after 9 month with a finding of...geez...

"Why discriminate the day of love? We are in a war here... with ourselves actually."
-The day of love...again, have you ever thought how many sins committed on this very day? and since you are defending this day...we are not in a war with our-self...you are simply trying to make a war with us... -_-"

"It doesn't matter what race or religion for we have been taught to love one another"
-true, but what does this have to do with this so called "special" day?

"What is wrong with sharing love and kindness that day?"
-who said it was wrong? we(Muslim)are just not allowed to celebrate this day..is that so hard to understand?

all in all, we cant resist from doing sins in our lives...we are just a human being after all...but we were given a brain to figure out what is bad and what is good...Im not a better person myself...but there is a fine line separating bravery and stupidity.
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written by seira , February 10, 2010
You know, if you want to celebrate your love with your loved ones that much, you can just spend your time with them everyday. There is no need for you to just wait for Valentine Day just to show your beloved how much you love them. Is it really that hard to show your love to your beloved everyday? V-Day is just an excuse for the businessmen to cash in money by selling chocolates/greeting cards and advertise their business. Use common sense please.
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written by Dean , February 10, 2010
Valentine's Day should be banned just like Non Muslims should not go to sungkai buffet!
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Open Up Your Mind
written by Heart with LOVE , February 10, 2010
Everyone know Brunei is a Muslim Country(MIB).
They are more muslim in Malaysia & Indonesia.
If anyone said Muslim country cannot celebrate Valentine Day because of MIB then are you saying WE(Brunei) are better then THEM????
During Christmas time, i saw there's some muslim wearing Santa Claus hat, how come?? Christian Muslim or just a normal Muslim.
We human can do what you think is right.. As long as you don't do BADS things. If you been go school,should know what's Good and Bad.
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Not again....
written by gringo , February 10, 2010
This thing has been repeated again and again and again that this valentine is day of the christian why bruneian so stubborn......Perasaan org putih kah ..? If
you think you still feel like going against the muslim fatwa.....I think its your decision up to you cuba lah kalau berani !!!! But I just like to remind you that if you are a muslim.....what you have said can caused you Kufur....(loosing your religion) which means u will be kafir (Non Muslim) already.......and if you are a muslim i also feel sad and sorry for a stupid person like you who dosen't know anything what is prohibited in islam...But if you are my friend i will tell him to say the shahadah again beofre its too late or you will die in pain ....real pain....Nauzubillah..!! Just because of your beloved valentine.......Menyusahkan diri. So dont try to be ego here going against the religion .....Cheers Good luck
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To Cinta....
written by Bakhil bin Lebai Kedekut , February 10, 2010
Valentine's is sooooo not a "Christian" holiday.... just go to any church and ask them if they're having V-day mass or church services, tak ada lah. Muslims like you only make the rest of us sound ignorant to the rest of the world with statements like atu haram, ini haram, semua pun haram.... Did you know that the computer/phone/software you're typing on is probably made by American (Christian) or Chinese (Buddhist) companies? Why don't you throw it away since it's haram? or that the car you drive is made by Japanese (Shinto)/Korean(Buddhist)/European(Christian) and it is also haram since it contributes to other religions and just ride an Arabian camel to work? Or tell your boss that you refuse to take off New Year's eve and New Year's and Sundays because it's based on the Roman and not our Muslim calendar? You need to get out into the world and not just hide under your tempurung....
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to Bakhil...
written by ... , February 11, 2010
you know, everything is done with research... not only here in brunei that muslims are prohibited to celebrate valentine's day, even muslims around the world fyi! we have this thing called fatwa...

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