I am a Chinese girl from Sabah working in Brunei for the past three years in an office. Life had been normal until now. But I have a big problem. Lately I have fallen in love with a local Brunei boy who is a Muslim. I am a non Muslim. We love each other very much and we plan to get married one day. Can I marry him without changing my religion? – Mary, Jalan Sultan.

Dear Mary,

If you are serious in marrying this man there is no way that can happen in Brunei without changing your religious faith. It would be a good idea if you can talk to the Dakwah Centre, Phone 221353, Bandar Seri Begawan where they will tell you what can be done.

I am 15 years old and I go to a local school. It is a co-ed institution and I have fallen in love with a schoolmate I meet every day. I do not think that she is aware of my feelings, which is getting unbearable each day. I don’t think that I can stand it any longer. I do not even have the courage to talk to her or even look at her. What shall I do? – Michael, Kuala Belait.

It is quite normal for young boys to develop feelings for members of the opposite sex. You will just have to endure and concentrate on your books more. During the course of your life you will face many similar situations. It will be up to you keep your head and go on doing what you have to do, in this instance study hard and pass your exams.

What shall I with my pimples which is bothering me so much. My face is completely covered with them and I am developing a phobia. I have tried all sorts of creams and nothing has worked. What Shall I do? – Mariana, Bandar Seri Begawan.

There is no need to worry too much about your pimples. Adolescents get this conditions at some stage or other. But if you think that your condition is serious see a doctor at once. Do not try your hand at self-cure because it is a medical condition which might need professional attention.